Women love their men strong and
confident. They want to feel security in his loving embrace,
yearning in his kisses and sincerity in their sexual
encounters. Women love men who have the strength to stand up
to what they believe in and admit to their mistakes.
Confidence.
It all starts with the right attitude and positive thinking.
You should not let insecurity and doubt cloud your outlook.
You should, above all, believe in yourself. How can you
exude confidence when you yourself don’t believe in
yourself?
Guys
shouldn’t think that “this girl is out of my league”
or the many what-ifs. (“What if she turns me away?”
“What if she already has a boyfriend?”) No, that’s not
the way it should be. Develop your confidence and watch as
your personality radiates from your words and actions. So
how can you build up your confidence?
First
of all, appearance matters. You don’t necessarily need to
be Hollywood material to score points with the ladies. You
don’t need to have Brad Pitt’s boyish good looks, Hugh
Grant’s British magnetism or Arnold Schwarzenegger’s
bulging muscles. You should at least look neat and tidy
though. Let your sweet side radiate from within; sometimes,
that’s enough to get the girls. It’s the simple things
that count. Open doors for her, hail a cab for her, those
kind of things. You need not have a white steed and be her
knight in shining armor.
Also,
girls love bad boys (well, not the abusive and criminal
types though). They think that bad boys are more mysterious
and exciting. These guys appear as if they are untamed and
unpredictable, not afraid of being just themselves or being
too nice just to get approval. Women feel that they are a
challenge and strive hard to get to know them better. They
exude the confidence, individuality, and masculinity that
are not found in wusses who act like spineless jellyfish or
doormats.
Unlike
confident men, the wusses constantly seek approval from
women and act desperate and needy. They buy women’s
attention by giving them expensive gifts or taking them out
to classy restaurants; though they might sound really
enjoyable, you should already know that women need more than
these.
More
importantly, you don’t even need to possess a 12” pecker
to be confident. If you are indeed well-endowed, well then,
good for you. Just don’t use it as a pick-up line or use
it to strike up a conversation. “I have a foot long
schlong, wanna fuck?” That would earn you a nice dirty
martini in the face, at the very least.
Of
course, a huge member is probably a plus factor; but that
doesn't mean you're more of a man than others. A real man is
one who is responsible enough to get married and raise a
good family, who has the strength of character to be a good
leader as well as a follower, and who knows what he wants
out of life and strives hard to get it.
